So, After almost an year I am writing again.
World Cup hangover is still ON. Congratulations France and Well done Croatia. Waiting for the next four years to pass! So that I can watch the game with our little champ! 🙂
Why not a fan and an admirer. Both are different. Football fan; anyone can be a fan. Anyone can support it and go on with a team. But admirer; its one who loves the game, loves the passes, praises the beauty and scolds the faults, one who knows the match to the core. Who supports a team but loves everyone else. 🙂
So what getting married to a football admirer gives you?
As he is the extreme admirer of the wonderful game football; he will be a person who takes everything in a spirit. As a game; he believes life doesn’t gives you anything granted, you have to work hard for it. He knows life is unpredictable as anything can happen in the last minute or extra time, either good or bad. Often it gives us penalty or free kick and we have to use it in the best way. Be careful that there is a goalie to stop what we are striking. He will keep a hope till the last moment and if he loses he warms up for the next game. He may wake up in the midnight or early morning to watch a game. Make a coffee and enjoy it with him. Because he know how to defend the difficulties. He know how to tackle problems. He know how to attack and clear the defenders. He will appreciate everyone’s spirit. He will appreciate everyone who deserves. Moreover you will be having a friendly rivalry at home only if you love football. We will learn to fight in laughs and appreciate each other. He will watch the game for you if you can’t. You will be having something interesting always in your life. 🙂
So love football and love someone who loves football. That’s how it is. ❤
P S : Using ManU poster only because my man loves the team, I am still for Barca 🙂
There may be different opinions for this. But this is what my life taught me. Let’s football
To know your best companion –Solitude
Travelling solo makes us realize that there is no other companion better than ourselves. We will find the best from our solitude. The inner peace, which happens when we are alone, brings more comfort and calmness to our mind. We will know more about strengths; our limits and ourselves.
To feel the easiness
Travelling alone makes the planning and execution of the trip easy. You will find it much easier to plan your own; only according to your wishes and life style. Make us realize how simple it is to schedule alone rather than waiting for someone’s holidays or perfect companionship. Moreover, it will help us to enjoy and to learn how to protect ourselves.
To feel beyond comfort zone
Travelling alone makes us leave our comfort zone and feel the freedom. In this moment or next we will be compelled to step out of our comfort area to explore the world alone and that will bring a very huge uplift to your soul. Real life starts when we step out of our comfort zone and this is the best way to feel that happening. Take risks and feel your strength.
You won’t come back as the same person
Every moment of a journey will change you. You will come back with a bundle of life in your heart and you won’t be the same person when you come back. We will definitely see the positive impact of journey over us after the trip. It is the time to find a new perspectives and possibilities in our world around.
Experience boosts confidence
In a journey you acquire so much of experiences. It will scatter and exhibit so many life stories in front of you and every such story gives a lesson. A solo journey is add-ups of so many such experiences and definitely, it will boost your confidence and belief in yourselves. It empowers our body and soul and makes us brave enough to take risks and not to fear any more.
Meet new people; new languages
If you are ready to mingle, travelling solo is the best way to make friends around the globe. You will feel free and easy to get attached to unknown people. You will try the best to get along with different languages. It will be easier to travel by hitch kicking and find new friendship.
Get inspired and expand the soul
Solo travelling have more ways to inspire. It will expand the inner confidence in us and will make us braver in doing things. There will be so many possibilities to meet real life inspirations from places and people. Definitely, it will help you in gaining yourself and make you believe in your own intuitions.
So get ready! Make your bucket-list ready and do everything alone.
Take a breath and feel the freedom.
Learn from everything and enjoy the lone ride!
Originally posted in greenhunt
Image source : Myself 🙂
It was when I worked in Ankleshwar (Gujarat), I met this Calicut born Unni. A person with burden of worries. Failure encountered him in every jobs he tried. Once he said to me.. “I am a failure. I am not able to send at least a penny to my mother from the salary?”
It was on that night, I met him nearby the Ankleshwar Railway Station for the first time.
He disappeared from our place in the midnight and my mind whispered to me to go in search of him. In the end, I was compelled to believe the truth that he is walking towards his own death. He didn’t win in that part too. He criticized me for that.
“Unni..Take a moment & think. Have you ever thought of your mother? She brought up you till now. Even being a widow, did she ever made you feel the absence of your father? You know well that how she contended to her fate, whole day working in work sites and fields.. It was to make you & your sister happy. If you gonna quit from your life.. who will take care of them?” I wasn’t sure about what I am saying. But I spat out words with the vague knowledge about him.
“Chottu Bhai.. What else I should do? Do you think I forgot my mother & sister?”
“Unni.. You just look at me. I never gained anything from my life till now. A failure in studying too. You already know how I am struggling day night here. I took my life as a thrill. You too try to think so.. You can..This is not the end dear!”
He ran to me and hugged!
Still being a stranger he promised me. “No.. I won’t end my life myself.”
There started our friendship.
After years while I was in Abudhabi, I got a letter.
Sister got married. Mother is fine.
Chottu Bhai.. You are really my brother!
I don’t know whether this is worth a read or worth sharing.. But this is clinging in my heart from the day I heard this.. The Chottu Bhai here is my own brother.. A person who I respect most.. It’s all because of his attitude towards life.. Every time when I meet him, he shares so many funny stories from his 37 years of life.. But when he narrated this, it made a special feeling in my heart.. May be the sole reason is hearing something serious for the first time from someone who always cracks jokes over his life.. I felt this as a message to everyone who is fed up of their life..
Take your life as an adventure.. You gonna love it.. 🙂